The Month in Review 9.9.06

Grad School, Career Changes and Poo pretty much sums it up. But not necessarily in that order.

Ethan has twice in the last couple of months explored his artistic side, and Sara and I are very proud of his creativity. We have however decided to encourage he use materials like water-based paints, clay, etc., i.e. anything but his own fecal matter. Twice we've put him down for a nap and gone upstairs a few minutes later to check on him to find that he had painted the hallway, his bed, his door, the mirrors downstairs, literally everything in his path, in poo. FANTASTIC! I could post some really disgusting photos, but I won't... those we will keep until his first date, upon which we will unleash a photographic catalogue of his exploits in excrement.

Moving on... I'm officially set up to sell credit over here... this includes primarily mortgages, but also car loans, personal loans, etc., so that's exciting for me. I do enjoy that, and especially with rates still very low, though they can be expected to head up over the next couple of years. The real estate market is less exciting to me as an advisor or investor because I think it's becoming saturated and the gains may not justify the extremely high taxes on the front end. I think we will still invest, but in a much smaller scale (an apartment here, a duplex there) than we were initially planning. I'm also starting a part-time job at a company called DeVere and Parterns which is a financial advisory focusin on offshore investing for expats. The job itself isn't that exciting, but I'm planning to soak up a lot of information that I can use later on once I have my own financial advisory or something along those lines.

Lastly, I'm starting French classes twice a week through January, and a Post-Grad Certificate program in Treasury and Financial Risk Mgmt organized by the Belgian Finance Federation, Bankers Academy, etc. and depending on how it goes, maybe getting a Masters or something. We'll see where all of this leads me... I'm thinking now either my own full-service Financial Advisory, either as my primary business or on the side, OR working in a Risk Mgmt position with an Asset Mgr like a bank, hopefully eventually leading to getting involved in Microfinance both here and abroad and if (a big IF) things go well, starting my own bank one day. That is the ultimate goal, that and writing the Great American Screenplay, both probably years in the works, but one day maybe.

Gotta have goals, at least I do, otherwise I'd be very satisfied to drink Belgian beer, eat frites, watch football and play with the kids while I weather away in some dead-end job, writing once a month, kind of like I've been doing with this blog of late. I'm going to try and do at least a weekly posting, more for myself than anything, just to put down in writing what I've done this week, what I'm hoping to do next week, etc. I've got a gay little sign in my 'office' at home that says Be Proud of Everyday. I already said it was gay, but for me, it's important because when you don't have a traditional job to go to with goals and markers laid out for me, it's hard to track one's career, and I want to make sure I keep moving forward, never being satisfied with the status quo. Status Quo is boring, life-sapping, miserable.

Kids are good, Sonia's taking more and more steps, but still lacking confidence, we already covered Ethan's 'growth', and Sara is still enjoying work more, but apparently it's going to get crazy again. Claire, Dom and Ellie coming to visit in late October, my Mom's coming in a couple of weeks for Ethan's 3rd birthday, Eric, Jen and Cameron coming next weekend, looking forward to having a full house. We just booked our trip to DC for Christmas, it'll have been over a year since we have been in the US by then... Looking forward to seeing the family and meeting my sister's newest family member, due in November, reconnecting with our Americanness, which includes in no specific order, watching my Skins, eating Chipotle, drinking American milk, and not having to worry about people not understanding me and vice versa.